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anonymous
writes:I am in need of knowing what I am doing wrong here. I have never had an orgasm and for some reason when he is rubbing the "spot" it tickles like hell. I want to but I guess I cant. I'm 33 years old and never had one, that's crazy, that's with having sex or foreplay.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Hey I think you can change your fore play style...also make it bit long...that will help you to go for orgasm.
Also speak with ur partner when u having it...
Best of luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): I was in early 30's when I had my 1st big 'o'. The rush of pure pleasure was amazing. You need to be Very relaxed as others have said, and my husband gave me soft oral. It took me a long time to 'receive' this, but I'm glad he was patient.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 December 2008):
 Have you tried a vibrator, by any chance? That can be a help to get you to see what one feels like. Then you can have a lot of fun finding out how to have one with the two of you!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 I don't know if yu have been with the same partner all these years,sometimes it takes a long time if you can't relax fully with the person you are with. Inhibitions about things that have happened in the past,maybe sexually related could put a mental block on yu going any further with this. All I can suggest is try just sticking with the foreplay, kissing and cuddling for a while and make the caressing and cuddling last longer before the finale. Hope this helps.
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