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anonymous
writes:Hi, I need a little help over here. I was with my ex girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. I was 24 she was 21. She decided to break up because - as she explained - she wasn't ready to make a long term commitment. She wanted to try other guys "on the market". I took it quite bad but I got over it as much as I could. (Altough I still think I'll have a rough time finding someone better than she was - as a person). We never had any difficulties in our relationship, everything looked great. Now, 3 months later, she sends me an essay text message basically appologizing for her actions saying the standard "it's not your fault". The thing is, we didn't have any contact in these 3 months (my rule). I still have feelings for her and I have no idea what to respond. Please give me some advice. Thanx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Hi, it sounds like she was just having moment of regret about how she finished things with you. The fact that she hopes you find someone who loves you probably means she doesnt want a relationship with you but obviously still cares. I think your reply should be very simple, thank her for getting in touch, tell her you are doing ok and that you hope she is happy. You will meet somebody else, its just not easy being dumped.Go out with your friends, have fun and dont think too much about your ex, plenty more lovely ladies out there!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't mention. She finished the message "I hope you will find someone who will love you.. wish you all the best." so basically what Tommy7 wrote could be but unlikely. It's my fault I didn't write the question detailed enough. Thanx Tommy7
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (8 September 2007):
It's possible that she has seen the light and she could not find anyone better than you. But I suggest you go slow. She may have been dumped and wants to grab on to an easy prey. This happened to a friend of mine. The girl was pregnant and was just grasping for a meal ticket for her child.
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