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writes:so me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now and we get along great, we have yet to have an argument and we support each other and when we're with each other, we are as happy as can be. But lately it seems my girlfriend doesnt want to talk or text me much over the phone. She goes to school from about 11am to 2:30pm and works from 4pm to when she is done which is usually about 7:30 to 8pm. I work from 5pm to 9pm every weeknight. Is it normal for couples to not talk or text as much over the phone the farther into the relationship, do you think its just because she's too busy at the moment, or is something wrong? She is the love of my life, we talk about gettiing married and our plans later in life, but sometimes i feel like im losing her. What do you think.
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reader, zedd +, writes (9 June 2011):
Maybe she asked this question to herself, too. When both partners are busy and not have enough time for each other, they can get into this vicious cycle, telling to themselves: "He/she doesn't care about me that much any more, so why should I?" And because no one makes the first step towards the other, eventually they will both think that the other one is to blame for this.
If this bothers you, try and text her more, call her, surprise her, try to spend more time with her etc. and see what's her reaction. Maybe she is waiting for you to show that the your relationship is important to you.
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