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writes:i am 14 and really really like my cousin. whenever i go over her house i think about being with her and fanatsize about us being together.when i decided to act on my feelings and grabbed her butt i didnt get a clear message from her. how can i tell if she likes me back. and how do i tell her how i feel? dont tell me to "go for it" or "dont do it" i need to know how to do it not what to do. okease help!!
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reader, Taylaa.x  +, writes (2 January 2011):
Insestual relationships nearly always end badly. i think if you choose to act on this your life is going to be complicated. how do you think your family are going to react? this girl is related to you! i'm sure it's just a crush and you will in time get over her and find someone else. you really need to think about this decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Thanks. To add to my question also does things like give massages to me when she visits which requires means I have to take my shirt off. She even slaps my butt everytime she visits. so I gotta know shes interested how can I tell
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reader, Zorro19 +, writes (2 January 2011):
I'm having a similar issue with my 2nd cousin. But I havnt let her know I love her.
To answer your question: Be open with her and talk to her. Tell her you need to talk to her about something important and go somewhere private, not public. Tell her how you feel, don't pressure her though. If she's not sure how she feels about you then back off. Give her time but you should get a clear response, yes or no from her. Maybe she'll be grossed out, or maybe she'll feel the same way, i don't know cause theres not alot of info.
Now my afvice on this situation would be to not "act on your feelings" like that by grabbing her. Best to talk first. But hey, im in a similar situation so maybe I'm not the best guy for advice :)
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