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10 days ago had sex, now maybe pregnant

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Question - (16 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

about 10 days ago, me and my boyfriend had sex and i think im pregnant. My boobs are sore, there is thick white discharge from my vagina, my period is due around the 1st of the month please help me as im really scared

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009):

Did you do it unprotected or did the condom split or were you safe?

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A female reader, Fee-Fee United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2009):

Fee-Fee agony auntTake a pregnancy test either at your GP, clinic or buy one from a chemist. There is no point being scared to death when you have the capability to CHECK. If the test comes back positive, then you need to discuss your options with the doctor.

If you didn't use a condom, for gods sake take pride in and care of your body and GET SOME.

UK clinics dish them out by the bag full for free - I got 60 from my clinic in a 2 week period after I had an implant fitted and checked!

If you did use a condom, I suggest you take a look into other forms of contraception (the pill/depo shot/implant etc) to make sure you are doubly protected. But remember, only the condom protects you from STI's.

Good luck.

Fee

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (16 January 2009):

Blue_Angel0316 agony auntInfections(yeast) produce a thick, white vaginal discharge called Leuhorrea and can irritate and dry the tender skin of the vaginal area. It has the consistancy of cottage cheese.

There is also a discharge when you are ending ovulation.

The color and consistancy of the discharge makes a difference in diagnosis.

Tender breast can be due to the fact you are about to have your monthly cycle. There are also other underlying causes such as cysts, fibrosis and cancer. Pregnancy is possible but usually after only 10 days it's not likely that you can tell if this is the situation. I would think it's most likely the body preparing for your cycle.

If you have any doubts, you may want to consult a Doctor because in case of yeast infections or other conditions that

may be present.

If your cycle doesn't start soon you should without doubt seek a doctor to rule out any infectious conditions and diseases or pregnancy.

From here on in you should definantly consider all risks before having unprotected sex. Abstinance is the best answer and the results are always better.

God bless,

Blue_Angel

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009):

Well you should be scared. What are you thinking having unprotected sex. Make and appointment with a gynocologist and bring your mother along for support. If you are adult enough to have sex you are adult enough to protect yourself from pregnancy and STD's. Talk to your doctor about the fact that having sex before you are fully developed or around the age of 21 makes you at a very high risk for HPV a virus that leads to cervical cancer which is deadly. Ask about the vaccine for it, there is no proof it completely protects you, but it helps. You only need to have sex with one partner to be at risk for this and condoms do not protect you from HPV.

Get educated and then you won't be afraid. Get to the doctor for an exam and a pregnancy test. No one here can diagnose you from your symptoms, and by the way we aunts are not medical doctors, so to ask advice in that area is just another form of sticking your head in the sand.

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