A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I dated this guy over two years ago. We were never serious, but he was my first real love at age 25. I don't think he loved me, and I felt crazy because of his ambivalence when we dated. It was actually a very tumultuous relationship and not healthy.Anyway, two years later, I still miss him and love him. I haven't seen him in a year, he lives in another state and has a new girlfriend, and we haven't talked in over 5 months. I cried for days when I found out about his new girl, totally devastated which is ridiculous! I just can't seem to get rid of those feelings for him, argh. In the back of my mind I think "maybe he'll come back to me someday" but I know that won't happen and that we are not good together! Rationally, I know I need to move on and that there are other fish in the sea, blah blah blah.So why can't I let go? I deleted his number, defriended him on facebook, got rid of everything that reminds me of him, yet the feelings won't go away. I haven't had a bf since him, although I've dated a lot. But it's just not the same.Can anyone relate? Any tips on how to let him go? I miss him so much, I think about him everyday! It's like torture. Maybe if I meet a new person I really like I can let it go, but in two years I've been single and there doesn't seem to be a reprieve coming anytime soon..
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