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*ruce lee
writes:I have problems with meeting women (I don't ask them out anymore) and I'm wondering if it is okay to just wait for a woman to ask me out. Most people I speak to say it should be the man's job to ask the woman out. But I think it should be 50/50.Am I right or wrong? Is it okay to just wait for a woman to ask me out?I went to jail once when I got angry that I got rejected. Reply to this Question
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (26 June 2010):
bruce lee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Okay, thanks for your advice. I will go away and think about all this. You know, being rejected is one of the most depressing things in the world. It's like when you're five years old, and the Easter Bunny doesn't bring you any eggs.
You might not like it, but you've got to accept it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Well, first off, don't take it personal, if someone says No. There are many reasons for rejection, it's not all about you!!
Second, I hate waiting around for a guy to ask me out, so yeah some females will take the initiative and go for it...but not all of us have the confidence, so if you really like someone ask her out, if she says Yes, YaY for you!!!!!! If she says No, move on, don't dwell on it..
Good luck, take care =)
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reader, twinlab99  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 My friend, get out of your comfort zone. My suggestion is to go read the book "Play to Win".....it's not about relatinships, it's about postivie thinking, taking risks, and asking yourself, what's the worst that could happen, and what't he best that could happen. Go get it. It will help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Well, you can wait but, you might end up waiting for a long time, there are woman that will, but to be honest i am not sure who many that do. It's not that there is a right or wrong, and yes it is ok for you to wait if that is what you want.
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