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*otlips4
writes:I have been friends with a guy for over 5 years now and have been told he is interested in me as more than a friend. But we have only ever kissed when we are both drunk (him more so than me!) I know he is a shy guy sober and have tried speaking to him sober but he just ignores my calls and texts. I want to know if there is any chance of us being together because I really like him. Loads of people tell me he still likes me but I just don't know and its driving me crazy. What else can I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): He probably knows. If ur both single then wot is there to lose? Just put your cards on the table and explain that if he doesnt want to that it doesnt have to affect you as friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Yeah I am afraid you`ll need to ask otherwise you`ll just not know and he may like you back. even if it doesnt work out you at least know you tried and know how he feels.
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reader, hotlips4 +, writes (1 May 2009):
hotlips4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think im scared he will say he just wants to be friends cos id b gutted if that was the case. im tryna put off askin him i dont wanna lose him. but i think ill nd to ask:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Hes being a bit indecisive about this and maybe doesnt know what he wants just now.
I suggest you tell him your feelings and want to know a decision from him then Give him a little space and dont contact him for about 2 weeks and after that time if he still hasnt tried to get in contact with you contact him and see how he is.
He will probably be a bit more affectionate if he tries to contact you as he wants to see you but if he doesnt try to contact you and is a bit spaced out when you talk to him in the end hes probably made the decision he wants to be friends.
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