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*noopy78724
writes:Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and i think were ready to make love i want her first time to be special and great and a long time ago she told me before we went out that she wanted her first time to be great sex well she said she didnt want to have wack sex does any one have tips to tell me on how to peform good and this is my first time to, just want answers from women only Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr D  +, writes (1 October 2007):
i agree with the first reply, you should pat yourself on the back for having the respect for your gf. not many guys out there consider their partners during the first time or even after it!
But just like it's u and me Lukey G said, its more of an emotional experience for women and you cant just undress and go straight for the win, you have to touch her, kiss her and not just on the lips, everywhere,
let her know that you find every part of her body sensational, compliment her on how she looks, and above all feel confident and relaxed, nerves and anxiety lead to rushing it and sometimes premature ejaculation which i know you dont want, so just relax and go with the flow.
Also every woman gets turned on by different things so experiment with your gf, see how she responds to different things, back arching,toe curling, eye's closed and heavy breathing are all good signs so just stay confident, relax and above all enjoy the moment.
hope this helped
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reader, it's u and me Lukey G  +, writes (1 October 2007):
hey,
firstly, good on ya for considering her and for wanting to make it a special experience for her - she's already the luckiest girl in the world because you clearly care so much for her.
The most important thing for a girl is that it is slow, gentle and passionate. Guys can get really carried away, don't rush. Kiss her and touch her, make her feel very special and sexy. Alot of girls are really nervous and embarrassed about sex and the way they look (guys too) make sure that she's comfortable and feeling amazing.
Just make sure that you show her how much you love and care for her. It's not sex, It's making love or sleeping together. It's such a passionate and emotional thing NOT just physical. Having sex with someone that youre in a relationship with is about showing your feelings for them in a physical way.
Dont try too hard. Just relax and be as natural as possible, i know that's probably hard but try.
Good luck hun, don't worry about it, just be yourself and she'll love you for it. If you can make sure that there's time afterwards for the two of you to cuddle up. Trust me, spending time together after you've been that physically close to one another is almost more amazing than the sex itself - in my opinion its the best.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Hi
Dont rush! Take your time and be gentle. You can also get some nice oils and give her a massage or you can have a nice bubble bath together. Just be safe and use protection.You should also ask her what she would prefer and arrange something close to that.
Good Luck
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