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How can I tell him how I feel? Everytime I try I'm scared he might say no.

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Question - (17 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *racyPrinces writes:

I've liked this guy for several years, I've known him since nursery and we have been good mates but throughout the years gradually in YEAR 5 I noticed I started liking him and my feelings kept growing deeper until my mate started started sending him emails saying she likes him, she told me about this, this hurt even more so I kept crying myself to sleep. I got jealous and felt hurt.

They both started going out not long after, that hurt even more because he was going out with my mate and I liked him a lot, I even knew him longer, I confronted my mate about how I feel, she ignored everything I said and didn't want to be mates with me anymore, I accepted because I couldn't handle her always talking about him and what they do together, but she rubbed in the fact she's going out with him. She'll always do somthing to make me jealous even more. Then throughout the year I tried telling him that I liked him but then my mate kept on taking him away from me, she wouldn't even let me look at him.

At last the year ended and I was happy at least I wouldn't see them together, then the holidays finished and I was in year 6, I still liked him and I even tried not looking at him but I just couldn't handle it at all, the amount of times he looked at me in that year made it even harder for me to forget him but I knew it was impossible but I tried. Then I found out my mate and he have broken up, I was over the moon and really happy. I was ready to tell him about how I felt, but I found out my other mate liked him and I got more and more angry, it started turning into a joke, but this time I didn't care and I talked to him and tried getting on with him and it worked but I still didn't know if he liked me, I was too shy to ask him or tell him how I felt.

Sometimes I did try, I waited and waited and all I got was smiles and him staring at me which was cute though to me, and the more he stared at me the more shy I got and I couldn't tell him how I feel, but it seemed like he liked me. The year was over and I found out my other mate liked him and was going to tell him but she never, they say she told him I was standing right next to my mate and he kept on smiling. I was confused who he was smiling at, I never told anyone about me liking him and then I went to secondary school and still liked him and saw him on the way to school sometimes. He always looked at me, and I always did to now I'm in year 8 and I still like him!

This year he done the same thing just stared at me, eg I was walking to school and he went past me I pretended noone was there and I looked slightly back and he looked back, which made me wonder does he like me or not? Please help can you tell me if he likes me or has any feelings for me? How can I tell him how I feel? Everytime I try I'm scared he might say no.

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A female reader, TracyPrinces United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2007):

TracyPrinces is verified as being by the original poster of the question

TracyPrinces agony auntThanks fo your help, am going to do it today.

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A female reader, bubblesparx United States +, writes (19 August 2007):

Hey, I think you should let him know! If you're scared he will say he doesn't like you that way, then email him so you can save the humiliation instead of being rejected at school and running and balling about it in the bathroom, do it at ome so you don't feel so much pressure! It does fill you with excitement though! Hey, I hope this helps! Drop me a message!

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