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how can I overcome my embarassment about having sex? I fear my lover's reaction on finding I am not well endowed.

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Question - (6 November 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2011)
A male Tanzania - United Republic of age 51-59, *aniels writes:

I am in a relationship, but my penis is very small. I fear to have sex because I fear to get embarrased before my lover. What should I do?

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A female reader, charlotte19 United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2011):

charlotte19 agony auntOk first of all not all women are that shallow! 2nd sex isnt just sticking it in! Its kissing touching grabbing using your tounge etc sex is only as exciting as you wish to make it. If your just thinking about the size of your penis the whole time its going to be a wash out for both you and her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011):

I have a penis that is much bigger than average. When I was younger that gave me a lot of self-confidence but as I've gotten older what I have found is that it's how you make love that determines whether a woman is happy and not what you use to make love with.

I know you've heard it before, because I've heard it a million times, but I've come to believe this is true: Men are into physical appearances, women are into the emotion. Go make love to her, be passionate, kiss her passionately, stare into her eyes, breathe in when she breathes out and tell her how much it turnes you on to have her breath inside your lungs - she probably won't even remember what size your penis was.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 November 2011):

chigirl agony auntBuild up a more intimate relationship where everything is not based on your penis size. If your relationship is based on something else then it wont matter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011):

If your lover truly cares about you and values your relationship, she isn't going to embarrass you about your size.

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