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writes: I need some advice please.Some friends and i went interstate a couple of years ago and i met a guy. We clearly had an attraction to each other, even though we didn't talk. I had a crush on him.My last trip, he got my number from a friend of his and started texting me. That was 6 months ago and we've been texting and talking every day without fail. He makes sure he always sends me a good nite and good morning and weve both declared that we like each other.I asked him were this relationship is going and he said we should take it one step at a time. Only some weeks ago, we had our first real fight when i raised whether there is other girls and whats happening with us. He got angry and stated he doesn't know what he wants with us and that its annoying for me to keep raising issues of other girls when he has been truthful to me.Since then, he doesn't send romantic texts or make me feel desired, but he continues to text and call everyday.I'm confused, Does he like me or is he just being polite and doesn't want to hurt me?What should i do, cause i still like him so much, but i feel very hurt?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 The chances of a long distance relationship working are extremely slim. Texts and phone calls are nice but they don't hold a candle to a long embrace or a loving kiss.
It is obvious he liked you when he took so much effort getting your number. You have no proof that he is seeing other girls. You do have proof the fire that was kindled on your trip is dying.
He may have not cheated, but is needing more and you can't give it to him so he is starting to distance himself from you. It is a very coward tactic instead of admitting he needs more then you can give him right now and ending it.
You can play it out to the bitter, cold end or stop the passive aggressive break-up attempt and just end it.
Then find yourself a person close by who can text, phone, cuddle, and kiss you.
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