A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi!I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out that he is a member of another site for 3 years but he stopped loging in when he met me. We exchange emails and chat online but not enough cause his job requires him to do projects out of tome from 2 weeks to 20 days. He answers all my emails but chatting online is very hard.When he is free, I am asleep cause it is late when I arrange an appointment he is either out of town or renovating his house. How do you think this can work? Am I in a hurry to pursue a relationship or is this normal? We have known each other for 2 months. Many people on the site send me marriage proposals but I like this guy. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Jovial  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 i think two months is enough for you to pursue a relationship but as you cant be in a relationship alone he also need to feel the same way as you do. i dont know the distance between the two of you but if its in a closer vicinity you can arrange to meet if he is willing, like you said he has a lot of exuceses maybe its better to ask him why he cant make time maybe he is indeed busy or he is avoiding you, and the only way to find out is by asking him.
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