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Why doesn't this guy just step up to the plate if he's interested?

Q.   I have been speaking to a guy for over a year now online. We met up once last year. We live in different states and are not committed to one another. However, we have spoken of a life together with no specific date set for anything moving ...

A.   4 March 2013: Sometimes being too honest can bite ya in the arse. I feel good being honest but perhaps this was a mistake. Even though him and I arenot together, if he were hooking up with a girl, I would be bummed but realize, we are not dating. Perhaps it ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't this guy just step up to the plate if he's interested?

Q.   I have been speaking to a guy for over a year now online. We met up once last year. We live in different states and are not committed to one another. However, we have spoken of a life together with no specific date set for anything moving ...

A.   4 March 2013: I agree with you. I was hoping we could meet up again but he wants to get his life going. There are many questions and concerns I have. He is currently not working anymore. Wants to get a job and feel alive again. I'm sure there are many things ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to like and care for someone so much even if you haven't been around the much?

Q.   Dear cupid, (sort of a long post) Im 20 and I live in London and I met this guy who is 21 and lives in Leicester (just over 100 miles away) I know that's not too long-distance but it does still count as a long distance thing if I can't just rando...

A.   4 March 2013: I have been online chatting to a guy for over a year almost every single day. We have met up once. We also chat about marriage, kids, things we would like to do together. I really wish it would happen. Perhaps it is more fantasy since we have no ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't like to talk about the future. Is she thinking of leaving me?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and we always a talk about getting a flat or something together and how great it would be to spend even more time together. However, when I bring up the idea of getting engaged in the near ...

A.   4 March 2013: The red flags are in place, mate. If she cannot talj about or see a marriage in the future, that is a clear sign that things are not looking good. Not seeung you for 3 weeks? Warning! ... (read in full...)

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