Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 12 September 2009: Code Warrior,
Your story made me smile a lot. Thanks.
A slight mix up though which i am sure will change your opinion somewhat....
The trip abroad was three weeks ago. I spent the night before she left for the weekend away with her an... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 11 September 2009: The reason I am becoming irritated is because most sane sensible rounded people would see this for what it is, yet you are suggesting the absurd.
Of course she is free to do what she wants. I have never said anything different. My point is that ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 11 September 2009: RhythmandBlues
Firstly, if I am starting to annoy you then there is a simple solution - stop reading and move on to another thread.
I must pick up on this though
"You clearly do not understand your girlfriend. She went on a 3 am bike ride... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 11 September 2009: Code Warrior
Again, thanks for your comments and advice.
The thing is, the yelling is indeed an issue and suggests that there is some sort of respect breakdown - absolutely, but my biggest issue here is not really about the possibility of c... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 10 September 2009: Update
I spoke to her by text. I told her that I read that she went for a 3am ride with this bloke and that she failed to tell me that. I told her how disappointed I was.
Her response was that she didn't feel it was a bad thing to do and that n... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 10 September 2009: Fair comments rhythmandblues2, but come on! She told me she went to bed and certainly not a 3am night ride in a drunk state with just one guy. Code Warrior, thanks again for your honest words. I am not sure I could adopt such a cold approach. I... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 10 September 2009: Code Warrior
I have just been reading her training group forum and i have found some information that is truly incredible.
Consider this again before reading what i found...
"2. A few weeks ago there was a social event/weekend for this r... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 9 September 2009: Code Warrior
You are very kind continuing to provide me with some support about this situation. Thank you for the link too, it was a lovely read and I am amazed that a 15 year old wrote that article.
You mention respect and i think you have h... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 7 September 2009: Rhythmandblues2 + Code Warrior
Thank you both for continuing to provide your thoughts, i really appreciate it and is is very kind of you both.
Code Warrior,
I am not the type of person who would resort to a fight because of the situation... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 6 September 2009: Code Warrior,
I appreciate your comments and yes you are right in saying that staying and finding out that she is not trustworthy is better than walking away and never knowing.
However, as pointed out - would a cheating woman honestly come cl... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 6 September 2009: Maybe rhythmandblues2, in fact she once told me that if she didn't socialise with this group for training she probably would have one only one or two local friends. Thanks for your thoughts. Code Warrior, I deeply care about this girl but at the ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?
Q. My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...
A. 5 September 2009: Thanks for the kind words. She is a very quiet girl most of the time, especially around other women. She doesn't wear make-up much and certainly isn't a girly girly (I like that about her). This maybe why she doesn't tend to bond well with other ... (read in full...)
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