Torn between wife and lover
Q. Please don’t shoot me down for asking this question as I know I’ve done wrong and am struggling enough as it is. I’m a 52 year old male, married for 30 years. I’ve not been happy for probably 10 years. As the children grew up we both realised we...
A. 23 April 2024: You’ve made a life with your wife and family. Sounds like it’s all got a bit mundane for you. You have a new interest and it’s made you feel alive again I.e another woman. You must have had something there with your wife to be together all these ... (read in full...)
Should I just be straight to the point?
Q. I have been really struggling with my husband for so long; I no longer know what to do. I have become hopeless however my main concern, despite everything else i.e. I complained of him not being compassionate enough when I am sick...e.g I have been ...
A. 23 April 2024: You do seem to have low self esteem. Try to stick up for yourself when someone disrespects you. Your husband doesn’t make it easy for you by telling you to shut up. Tell him to shut up.... (read in full...)
Am so sexually frustrated that it's destroying me in mind, body, and soul.
Q. Please give me some advice about how to deal with sexual frustration. I cannot STAND it anymore, I am so sexually frustrated. I have morals, so casual sex is off the table. I need sex so bad that I can't freaking sleep. I am a young woman. ...
A. 23 April 2024: Sex isn’t everything. It’s just a part of a loving relationship. Meeting someone who can go through life with you and the ups and downs is more important. ... (read in full...)
Are we able to be friends
Q. Are we able to be friends One of the managers at my job I think has a crush and is attracted to me so he keeps me at arms length so to speak. He is not my boss or in the same department as me but sometimes we do work together and since ...
A. 23 April 2024: Hi, I’m thinking because in the early days when he showed an interest you told him you wanted to be friends. Maybe he was hoping for more before you said that. Some men are afraid to spell their true intentions out. He might need a little push about ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...
A. 23 April 2024: Hi, no there’s nothing wrong with not going to the reunions. It will only evoke the negative memories you had from the past. Move on with your life and make more positive memories... (read in full...)
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