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What qualifies me to help people? Absolutely nothing. Take anything I say with a grain of salt. Ponder what makes sense, and forget what doesn't. Who am I to give anyone advise? Who is ANYONE to give advise, even those of us with advanced degrees or years of counseling experience. Ultimately, NONE of us are experts when it comes to matters of the human heart. Working through problems can ocassionally be helped by reaching out to others, but ultimately, calls for a person to roll up their sleeves, or their pant legs, and get to work on the inside.

Where do I live? In my heart more than my head, I'm afraid, which has gotten me in a variety of royal binds. Not sure I could be pinned to any one geographical region, so don't ask!

What makes me tick? What makes any of us tick? I find myself here, in this world. The alternatives (leaping from tall building, jumping in front of semi-truck, etc) leave much to be desired. So I'm giving this life thing my best shot. Some days are DEFINITELY better than others. Mostly, I'm just utterly grateful for what I've got.

What's my relationship status? Totally in love with one guy who would croak if he knew I was hanging out an "Agony Aunt" shingle or divulging personal info of any kind. So don't expect me to last long here. I hate hiding anything from him, but feel compelled to scratch my writing itch for a bit.

I'm terrified that this marriage is a mistake - 3 months in and it's already a nightmare!

Q.   Sorry this is VERY long!! i am 29 and married just 3 months. My hubby is 24 and we were dating nearly 7 years before we got married.The first few weeks after the honeymoon were great but the past few weeks have been a nightmare. I feel so down, an...

A.   28 December 2009: To Mrs0809 - I just wanted to say, I'm so sorry you’re going through this!! I know the decision you face now may seem insurmountably difficult. I was rather too young when I first married. My parents had just split after more than two decades of ... (read in full...)

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