My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 16 August 2009: New insight:
When we fell in love a few years ago, some of the things I loved about her included how funny and silly she'd get after a few drinks, how ambitious and hard working she was, how sexy she was. I appreciated those things.
At that t... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 13 August 2009: Thank you, SY. I am indeed insecure, have trust issues, and am working on those things. Unfortunately she will probably be moving to this city soon to pursue job opportunities. Long-distance, I'm sure being her friend wouldn't work, as she would ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 13 August 2009: SY, you bring up a very good point. She has never been one for low-cut tops or super-sexy clothing... but when there is any significant cleavage I have made remarks. And she is not the type to want to go out to bars and clubs every weekend (or ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: I am very serious about this, not desperate because I don't want to be alone, not full of empty promises... I am serious about change, giving her what she needs, being the man she deserves. I know she loves me, and I know the past 2 months has ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: SY-- I would like to ask her what is really going on, but she has said she needs to not have contact with me now... I *think* the right thing for me to do now is leave her alone?
I know she has been shown attention by other guys, and I also kno... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: SY-- I hate to think that you might be right about her deciding to be apart from me, and many "reasons" being excuses. I just can't understand how she would go from being SO loving, genuinely, toward me... to wanting to end it, just like that. It ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: Thanks again to all who have replied.
Here is my sad update after a two-hour conversation with the love of my life this evening:
I told her all I've written here.. and I let her talk at length, expressing all that she's been thinking and fee... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: UPDATE:
I told her all I've written here.. and I let her talk at length, expressing all that she's been thinking and feeling... she is very upset and confused, she doubts herself so much now and is angry at me for causing it. She has been con... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 11 August 2009: Thank you everyone. Some very good advice from all of you (and RCN, I do know of the emotional bank account and that it's well in the negative perhaps) I am afraid, but your words have been encouraging. I would like to share some more info, maybe ... (read in full...)
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