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Please help me understand my true feelings...

Q.   I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

A.   18 September 2009: Thank you Anon female!! Your advice is great. I do agree with everything you've said. It would be great to spend more time together and be able to improve things. The issue is how!! I have talked to my husband about this a lot. We've been discussing ... (read in full...)

Please help me understand my true feelings...

Q.   I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

A.   14 September 2009: No I'm not in contact with the guy I have feelings for. He's out of the picture. I want to focus on my marriage and give it 100% effort. It would be amazing if I could fall in love with my husband to a greater degree than I did at the start. I woul... (read in full...)

Please help me understand my true feelings...

Q.   I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

A.   14 September 2009: You're right. I want out of the relationship, in this present moment. But I'm smart enough to know it's just a feeling. And feelings are fleeting. It most probably would be a huge mistake to leave!! I've already had some terrible advice. One friend ... (read in full...)

Please help me understand my true feelings...

Q.   I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

A.   14 September 2009: You're right to say I shouldn't blame him. He hasn't done a thing wrong. I'm the one who's feelings have changed. But there are things he can do to help. I'm just scared there will never be enough chemistry for me to be happy long term. I wouldn't ... (read in full...)

Please help me understand my true feelings...

Q.   I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

A.   14 September 2009: Thanks so much guys! It helps to talk about it. Rob you are right that it probably wasn't fair to have married or not talked to him knowing I didn't feel the same spark that he did. But the love was there. And I knew that that's what would see us ... (read in full...)

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