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Girlfriends sexual past is causing trouble for me...

Q.   I just found this site and decided to ask about something that is causing me trouble to see what others think. I have been with my current girlfriend for two years... She is older than me, and I was a virgin when I met her which I think is one of ...

A.   15 May 2010: Hello, I have a similar situation and it still bothers me 14 years into our marriage. Take a look at my posting. Let me know if you need any more details or have more questions. Bottom line - deal with the issue NOW. Dont sweep it under th... (read in full...)

I opened up a little book of hers and started reading about her past...

Q.   I am 18 years old and i met the most amazing girl about 7 months ago. About 2 months into our relationship we decided to have a child together, our parents know and we have talked it through. However she has been sexually promiscuous in the past ...

A.   10 April 2010: I have been in your situation -times three. That is to say that my [then] girlfriend cheated on me three times early in our relationship. I was about your age, she was 1 year younger. Flash forward 14 years, we have been mostly happily married. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend keeps lying about her past and I cant handle it anymore!

Q.   I dont know if I want to stay with my girlfrend and I really need some help here. I know it should be my own decision but I really dont know what to do anymore. She had told me everything about her past. Well I had though everything. She had tol...

A.   20 January 2010: I know from experience how difficult this can be. I have been dealing with something similar for about 16 years. She was my first as well so I know how you feel. Ask yourself if what you are feeling is LOVE or infatuation. If the answer is the ... (read in full...)

HELP...Wife lied about her past

Q.   I need some advise especially if you've gone through this and can help. My wife of 8 years (we've been together for 12), has revealed that she lied about her sexual past. I actually caught her talking to an x on a social networking site ...

A.   23 December 2009: This has been extremely difficult for me. I realize that my wife and I were very young when she cheated. I too feel cheeted. To be clear, I was not looking specifically for a virgin; it would not have mattered to me if she were not. The ... (read in full...)

HELP...Wife lied about her past

Q.   I need some advise especially if you've gone through this and can help. My wife of 8 years (we've been together for 12), has revealed that she lied about her sexual past. I actually caught her talking to an x on a social networking site ...

A.   22 December 2009: Hi, I know what you are going through. In fact I am in the exact same situation except my wife actually admitted to cheating on me twice (before we were married). See my original post here: http://ww... (read in full...)

My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.

Q.   Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college ...

A.   12 December 2009: I hear you anonymous -12/12, but I cannot help but think that there are still things that I do no know about her past. Am I nuts for wanting to know everything about my wife. I understand the Clinton reference, but I have a feeling that Secretary ... (read in full...)

My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.

Q.   Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college ...

A.   8 December 2009: Thanks Not My Name, Part of me does not buy the (it was because she was molested thing). I have never blamed her for being molested and I understand why she kept that a secret. I still think that voluntary sex is just that, voluntary. Wouldnt ... (read in full...)

My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.

Q.   Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college ...

A.   7 December 2009: Thanks for the responses. To be clear, the past would not have mattered if she was truthful from the beginning. I just feel cheated and my self esteem is horrible (despite outward sucess). I simply cannot process compliments. Note: she is a ... (read in full...)

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