Is going on a work retreat acceptable without a spouse?
Q. Hi - Thank you for taking the time to read my post. My husband’s work has an annual retreat for 4 days and it has been stated, “Spouses are not welcome.” Would this bother anyone else? My husband and I are having a lot of issues as is - this ...
A. 5 September 2011: Sorry for the misunderstanding, when I said "Now all this is based on the work really saying "spouses are not welcome"" I was talking about MY answer, not your question or your feelings.... (read in full...)
Is going on a work retreat acceptable without a spouse?
Q. Hi - Thank you for taking the time to read my post. My husband’s work has an annual retreat for 4 days and it has been stated, “Spouses are not welcome.” Would this bother anyone else? My husband and I are having a lot of issues as is - this ...
A. 4 September 2011: If this is a rule from work, you need to accept it. You are not working everyday, get awaya friend for a day or two during the week. To be angry with a spouse for doing what they have to at work is not a good base to fight from.
Now all this is b... (read in full...)
How do I stop putting her on a pedestal?
Q. Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 years. we are currently doing a LDR where shes in Boston and im in NJ. She will be there for a year. We had gone to college together and spent almost every waking minute with each other. I ...
A. 4 September 2011: I am sorry, but I think it is over. She just wants to keep you as a backup or a token maybe. Perhaps you should say it is a break and attempt to see other people. Then when/if she calls you, you can still visit and have fun. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop putting her on a pedestal?
Q. Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 years. we are currently doing a LDR where shes in Boston and im in NJ. She will be there for a year. We had gone to college together and spent almost every waking minute with each other. I ...
A. 4 September 2011: I think you need to back off a bit. Think about how much you would love to have her chase you and use that as a motive to be casual. Let her wonder about you.... (read in full...)
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