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I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?

Q.   I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in ...

A.   28 March 2006: Thank you all for your encouragement! The heading to my question wasn't written by me, but by those who approve and publish this site. My definition of attraction meant sharing things in common, beliefs, things of that nature. I give little thought ... (read in full...)

I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?

Q.   I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in ...

A.   28 March 2006: Very bad news. My husband saw the question/message last night. He's very hurt and angry with me, I don't blame him. The very thing I didn't want to happen. I just needed some advice or insight, without mentioning to anyone who knew of us, ... (read in full...)

I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?

Q.   I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in ...

A.   28 March 2006: Unfortunately, my husband got into my email and read my question and is seriously devastated! I was hoping to find some encouragement and some advice for my problem without hurting him, instead this request for help has made a bigger mess for both ... (read in full...)

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