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Is my boyfriend right, that "all blokes watch porn"?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend has always watched porn and I only have a problem with it because it makes me feel inadeqaute. Is it normal for all men to watch porn? (he is 34) I am particularly worried now because he has just set up the internet and I k...

A.   20 September 2005: As a guy myself, I can honestly tell you that not all guys watch porn. I don't. I personally feel that it's a wasted exercise that only serves to reinforce negative attitudes towards women (that is, seeing only the physical side of women, and not ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to have his cake - and eat it! Should I let him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I found out recently that my boyfriend kissed another girl whilst on a stag weekend. They exchanged numbers and have been in contact since a couple of times. I found this out though by a text message I saw on his phone from ...

A.   16 September 2005: According to a recent study, marijuana certainly does cause depression, especially if the user started at an early age. But depressed or not, no one has the right to treat you the way he did. And wasn't that why they invented anti-depressants ? E... (read in full...)

Why would God let me fall in love with a guy who's scared to talk to me?

Q.   I've been trying to get this guy's attention for over 3 years, and at times I think he likes me, but other times I don't. I'm very confused on why God would let me fall in love with him. I know I have deep feelings here, because one, I've never fe...

A.   13 September 2005: Thanks to low self-esteem, this guy thinks that he would never be able to win a nice girl like you, even though he desperately wants to. This is why he gets afraid and anxious whenever you are near. He can't help it, and he probably hates feeling ... (read in full...)

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