My girlfriend is not interested in sex, does this mean she wants to break up with me?
Q. i have done an a intercourse with my girlfriend i realize that she is not interested in sex, what i do she is know intersted in talking with other person's what i she i response me and ignore me suggest me is she want to break the relationship ...
A. 28 July 2010: Perhaps you should slow things down a bit and let her be the first to initiate physical intimacy. Its worked like a charm for me in the past. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 27 July 2010: I'd like to say 2 things that have benefited me from all of this. First, this has presented me with the biggest challenge of my life and I already feel, ( despite some so-so days), that I'll come out on the winning side of this.
Secon... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 27 July 2010: Thanks DP, for everything. I hope you and your wife find peace and happiness in your life. I'm getting better...about how I can not just get through this but how I can prevail and come out better at the end of it.
I'll check back on this thr... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 26 July 2010: My wife was 14 at the time...this is a major sticking point with me.
A saving grace is that it didn't happen around here and I don't know the individuals involved other wise there would be prison in my future.... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 26 July 2010: Tisha-1, I've gone through counseling. I could continue with my current counselor but I see no point.
All the progress I've made has been because I don't want to feel like this.
That, and this site has really helped me. adifferentperspe... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 26 July 2010: I just wish I could put this in some kind of mindset. Like she was sold as a sex slave at the age of 12 or something. I think it would be easier to deal with that than what this is.I'd love to have a definition or analyzation for it. I have good ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 24 July 2010: I'd like to recount a moment, if you'll allow..
After so many years of being together, through countless emotions and exchanges, and sleeping together and loving each other and knowing so thoroughly one another...on occasion a moment will stir it ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 24 July 2010: adifferentperspective, You and I are in a common place. I've thought about the exes, the best friend, the guys when she 14, the potential johns...who I now think are non-existent. This is going to be a tough journey for me, still...but I'm going ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 24 July 2010: BTW, can anyone tell me anything they know about Wellbutrin? I start it tomorrow because the Celexa has a side effect that makes sex, for me anyway, like eating your favorite meal without the taste.... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 24 July 2010: I just went back and re-read all the posts and they have made me very misty to say the least.
My wife is in the living room watching her shows and I'm happily typing away knowing that in a little bit, we're going to make up for being apart fo... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 24 July 2010: adifferentperspective, continued comments like this keep me coming back.
We both have been there. I've been there with thoughts of her at 14. I've been there with thoughts of her and my best friend.
I can't revisit these thoughts.
... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: adifferentperspective, you're absolutely correct, it would be an endless cycle of hopelessness and heartache to pursue this. There's no future in pursuing answers to terrible questions of the past that have no relevance to the present.
As it... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 23 July 2010: Honeypie, I'd hazard to say there's a marked difference between a woman not being a virgin when her husband married her and a guy finding out 33 yrs later that his wife was a 14 old prostitute. I admit that its on me to live in the present and not ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 22 July 2010: q1605, a myriad of reasons. Did you read all my posts? But I think at the bottom of it is questioning whether I could live the rest of my days with this woman.
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My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 22 July 2010: Honeypie, at the risk of sounding snarky, what would you consider my issues to be? I think most people would have an issue of finding out their betrothed was once a prostitute and had a ruined childhood.... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 22 July 2010: We spent a great day together yesterday and I realize that the only thing that matters is our making each other happy now and there is absolutely no gain in rehashing up the past.
The comments here have really helped and really made a differen... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 21 July 2010: "Did all these feelings build up over time or appear suddenly. Like over a couple of months?"
It never sat well with me knowing my wife, back then-girl friend-, had run away and had experience at such an early age but it only became overwhel... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: Honeypie, "But this is mainly about YOU, not her." Yes, this my Pandora's box and the theories I have for why I opened it are many or perhaps accumulative. 1) Mid life crisis 2) Unresolved resentment for shacking up with my best friend and denyi... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: What is an "RA guy"?... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: No I don't talk to my former best friend. I'd certainly punch him 5 or 6 times in the teeth if ever came into my sight.... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: Honeypie. I didn't want any of this to happen. We were cruising along mostly just fine when this thing sinisterly appeared and took control of my life. I hid it away for the better part of 3 months, not letting my wife know what was wrong. And ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: I have to be able to understand why she ended up with my best friend. I know she seduced him but she never wanted the break up between she and I. She was in desperate straits and at the bottom of it all, she deserved the right to the pursuit of ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: Here's maybe the biggest question of my situation. Do I even have a right to know about this even though she lied to me about it 24 years ago? I'd say, given her cumulative history and propensity to sleep with best friends than yeah, I have a ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: We talked today and things are...better. She still thinks I was hurtful and is very worried about what I must think of her, I told her I was wrong for putting her through this and that I'm so, so sorry, Despite her taking in my best fried at t... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 20 July 2010: "And you married her for what reason???? This should have been the end of it with her."
They'd go to court together when I dragged them in for visitation violations and it drove me nearly insane. When I came back from CA after I split during t... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Roshii, I appreciate your straight forwardness and God knows I needed a wake up call after how I handled the situation.
The good news (or bad depending on how it's going to play out ) is that she spoke to my daughter last night and agreed to take ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Tisha-1, I'm an advocate for us pulling together to get through this. I'm an adversary of continued shunning with only one party trying to work through this.... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: And I don't see how I patronized you, I stated what I believe is a fact. Either you're extremely understanding and forgiving or you're here to cast stones.
And don't even tell me that you understand what I'm going through, you don't have an inkli... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Roshii, I didn't invite these feelings into my life. I didn't wake up one day and say, hmmm...How can I make both my wife's life and mine completely miserable at the same time.
I already professed to seeing a counselor, I've seen several ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Roshii, you are ether an incredibly thick skinned understanding individual or you posted for no other reason to go holier than thou.
Like I said, I love my wife but we have had issues. We split up 17 yrs ago, before we were married and she invi... (read in full...)
Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past
Q. hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...
A. 19 July 2010: You don't really have it all that bad, not to make light of your situation but it could be a lot worse.
Take my column for example.
http://www.DearCupid.ORG/question/my-wife-was-a-prostitute-but-shes-mad.html... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Not to be critical of the folk, particularly the guys, but it's one thing to be the guy on the sidelines making calls, and quite another to be the guy who's going through this.
Try to envision your wife/girlfriend at the tender age of 14 spre... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: I'm at a loss at what to do at this point. She has completely shunned me and I gave up trying to communicate with her after Saturday when I showed up at the hospital with candy and cards, one for her, and she hid her face and refused to take the ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: I posted this right before bed so I'll need some time to visit all the posts yet but I want to thank everyone for their thoughtful responses.
It seems the general consensus is to let the past be the past and I'm more than willing to go that rou... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: Sorry, I meant to say within a 97% certainty range.... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my wife's past?
Q. My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...
A. 1 July 2010: Mine started about 3 months ago...even though she had related to me yrs ago that she had runaway from home at 14 and had been raped at the age of 11.
She slept with 2 guys while she ran away to Texas at the age of 14.
It completely devas... (read in full...)
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