Is it better the second time around?
Q. Has anyone ever got together with an ex and it been better the second time around as you had learnt from certain mistakes? I may be getting back with my ex boyfriend and I feel that I have definitely learnt a big lesson, which came with a lot of ...
A. 17 December 2008: I am that guy!,its tough when you can feel your girlfriend losing respect for you for who you are,sure you can try to encourage a boyfriend to do things for himself but when a guy feels pressure,its like criticism and its tough to take.
I felt the... (read in full...)
Do feelings really just fade away?
Q. Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me a couple months ago. I have been an idiot and kept pressing the issue of getting back together, even though i know she needs her space right now and doesn't want a boyfriend. I didn't do anything ...
A. 30 November 2008: Its the hardest medicine in the world,she is telling you what she wants,give her space,set yourself a deadline on the calendar,why not 2-3 weeks?
i know its going to be tough,this sounds terrible but if you do this now maybe the fact alone that we'r... (read in full...)
Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?
Q. I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is ...
A. 30 November 2008: Don't feel bad, what you are feeling is natural,there are probably a bit of leftover emotions to deal with,i dont think i'd handle it any better,with a five year relationship you probably thought you'd be the one she was going to settle down with.
I... (read in full...)
What can I say to recover the relationship...?
Q. Is there anything I can do/say in order to get my girlfriend back? Last week i got a bit down and kept my girlfriend at arms length,she was supposed to be going away for the weekend and i felt that i would get better when she got back. My mother...
A. 29 November 2008: thanks for the prompt response,she's 37,i'm 33. The self help books would say take the break up on the chin,dont argue or try to convince otherwise and move on and let things cool off.I want to explain myself but i dont know if she wants to hear ... (read in full...)
Help, my love life is a mess!
Q. Help, my love life's a mess. There's this guy right who I dated once and I think I fell in love with him, either way he dumped me (this was months ago) and I'm going out with someone else now. I thought I was over him but I found out he still ...
A. 28 November 2008: A question is why did he dump you in the first place,sometimes it takes a break up to realise what you liked about the person in the first place. I think you should meet him and talk, at least you'll get to know a little bit more.
Its always toug... (read in full...)
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