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*lacube's profile: Hello All, prevoiusly i posted my difficulty i was having with my girlfriend. I spoke to her by text, asking if i could call her as i had something to say to her. She brought things that caused the problem in our relationship. Like not being there for her when was pregnant and having a miscarriage. Although i was, however not physically, because we leave in diferent cities. I did thank her for chatting with me via whatapp. I sent her a text pleading with her if i could call her, eventually she agreed. I called her and we spoke, declaring all my love to her, however she informed me when she was in love with me, it was one sided, i agreed with her, just to keep the peace, however explaining to her that i did love her, but maybe i didn't show it enough, which i know i did and i was not around when she was micarrying our baby. I told her that i wanted to come, but she always said that she will be okay. I should have just gone. Today when i was talking to her, she was receptive, i was trying my possible best to make amends, suddenly she said that she vowed never to cry, and i have reduced her to tears. I never said anything out of context to annoy her. She went to say while she was at work she broke down in tears. She had to come of the phone to take another. I asked if i could call her back, i pleaded with her because i wanted to ask her if there was any chance of rekindling after a while. She sent me a message saying it is over. I accepted that, because i know she is still feeling bitter towards me. I decided to tell her by text. I am so in love with her. I said my good bye and well wishes to her, and wishing her all the happines in life. I took the wekend of last week as means to see if going away to help us discuss our diference. I totally forgot to tell her. Would it be right in me sending a message to her to let her know that through the course of the week if she got an inclination that maybe she might want to reconcile. go away for the weekend? Please i really need your here. I have tried everything at my disposl.

I don't want to lose her but I don't want to pester her either

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