Why did I give in this time to his media request?
Q. Hi all, I need to vent about this. I had a secret “boyfriend” when I was young. He was my first everything. I’ll call him John. This was many years ago. I was 13, he was 17. I explored why in my 20s in therapy. My mother was an abusive person a...
A. 9 December 2021: Not sure how it’s my fault he keeps making new profiles to contact me. Like I said, sometimes I respond, sometimes I don’t. I guess there’s some sort of trauma bond. I never said I gave him my number. When he made that last new profile, he only ... (read in full...)
Why did I give in this time to his media request?
Q. Hi all, I need to vent about this. I had a secret “boyfriend” when I was young. He was my first everything. I’ll call him John. This was many years ago. I was 13, he was 17. I explored why in my 20s in therapy. My mother was an abusive person a...
A. 9 December 2021: Yes you hit it on the nail. After he dropped me off after the shower, he didn’t call me for two days when he had been calling twice a day. I mention that and it made me the bad guy. Like seriously? Bc I pointed out an obvious observation.
I felt... (read in full...)
Is a 17 year age gap to much?
Q. Is a 17 year age gap too big? I’ve being dating a man who’s 17 year older than me. He’s got three kids to two different women. He’s never been married and I don’t know what went wrong with the two ex’s. It’s early days so I don’t want to ask too ...
A. 18 August 2021: Sounds like drama. Move cautiously ... (read in full...)
Why am I not good enough for a relationship, or even fun a second time ?
Q. Hi, please help I am really struggling I am trying to understand the pattern of events that keep happening. I have just got back onto the dating scene and wanted to have fun to gain casual experience, but ultimately looking for more. It see...
A. 1 August 2021: This is a painful situation. Men think about getting the sex first then consider a relationship. I think women may be the reverse. Try to keep it platonic for like a month at least. The book Why Men Love Bitches may be up your alley. It’s about ... (read in full...)
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