I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 18 February 2009: Dear last anon reader - if you want to contact me directly here at Dear Cupid then please please do! Your story mimics mine so very much that I could feel all your pain - exactly like I did and to a certain extent still do. It has just changed as ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 5 February 2009: Hi Anon lady aged 42! This is Mags here. Not been on for ages and ages because I have been communicating with some of the others separately from main site. We have all been to hell and back and back to hell at times. Just communicating with others ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 28 November 2008: Mags here! My feelings mirror JV so very much - I feel and felt exactly the same thing. It is interesting hearing from somebody who stopped the affair and then 2 months later regretted that decision ... just gave me a tiny moment of thinking - does ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 22 November 2008: Oh Sue - I feel your pain and heartache so very much. I cried when I read your message as it reflected mine as well. We just have to get through this - we just have to. We cannot go back although we want to badly. They say no contact is the o... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 21 November 2008: Hi - Mags here. Just to let you know that it is now 6 weeks of no contact.I have stuck rigidly to my guns but at what cost to my mental and physical well being!
Still miss him beyond belief and I still cry - all the websites I have seen about gr... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 17 November 2008: Hi - all good advice and I agree. You are right - if he truly cared for me he would be here for me now but he isn't. Moving away from the memories is so so hard. Loss of contact is still hard - I also have an ache inside which changes from my ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 16 November 2008: Hi Sue, THe loss of contact is the biggest killer for me and just about everyone else in this situation. You sound so much more experienced in these feelings than myself and what you write does make sense. I have had no contact with him for 5 whole ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 11 November 2008: JV - I am pleased you have had some sort of 'closure' on this. Your stomach must have been doing butterflies when you first spoke to him especially as it has been nearly 3 months. He clearly had strong emotional feelings for you and as you say he ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 10 November 2008: Hi - I have read the last message three times and cried each time. You have put into words exactly how I feel and exactly what I know to be the truth. Just hearing it from someone else has helped me - you hit the nail on the head with each sentence ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 9 November 2008: Hi again! I had a good day yesterday but for some reason today (Sunday) I am having a bad day. Thinking about all the things he said to me and how at the last call he said the complete opposite. I am so mucked up.
I just can't get it into my head ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 8 November 2008: Hi to the last person! I am so sorry there is another one of us out there feeling like this! I too am jealous that he chose his wife (and alittle 1 year old girl)over me (how selfish is that!) but it hurts to be second choice doesn't it? Especially ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 5 November 2008: I know - its Mags 1 again! I have re-read the original question which is about contacting the other person. I havn't done that because I know the rejection would hurt me even more than it is already and probably make me feel even worse.
So ma... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 3 November 2008: JP and DBB1 - thank you thank you thank you! Wherever you may be in this world I need to send you a huge hug for your incredible messages. Just being able to read about others going through similar and identical emotional feelings has really helped ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 2 November 2008: Jane - thank you. I feel you are my mirror image but a few months further along. I had a truly terrible day yesterday and I was with my family all day (brothers, Mum nephews etc) - they all knew I was sad and I tried so very very hard to smile and ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 31 October 2008: Surely this must get better - time is creeping on and I am still hurting. Like DBB1 my insides are churning. I see constant reminders of where we used to have little secret meets in pub car parks, roads we drove down together, every silver mondeo ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 30 October 2008: Well well well! I agree with Smudgecat - we are all a really messed up little bunch of people!
I also agree with Smudgecat about the glass wall as well. I do love my hubby but I know there is a mental barrier between us (he wouldn't know or suspe... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 29 October 2008: Hi all and DBB1 - I feel your pain so much. Being in the same boatI do understand.I feel so awful and so sad it just hasn't got any better.
I wish he would contact me just to see how I am but I know he won't because he is trying to patch his marr... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 28 October 2008: Good morning - especially to DBB1. We are mirror images. I never thought a man would feel the emotional pain like this. It is breaking me apart. I just want to get on with my life like I was before February this year. Why oh why did I succomb to a ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 27 October 2008: Hi again,
I sympathise with the last message from DBB1 especially about hating yourself and feeling you've done something bad and letting yourself and family down. Exactly how I am feeling as well.My family don't know about my affair and it is so... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 22 October 2008: Moderator's Note: I think this is the poster of the original question. Well hello people - you are all so special and although others will not agree with what we have done - sometimes these things just do! This site has been my outlet for all my f... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 16 October 2008: Hi - I cried when I read the last reply. In so many ways your thoughts and feelings mirrored mine. It hurt to read them. In fact I hope that my lover sometimes thinks about me exactly how you described. Does he wonder how I am? Does he think of ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 12 October 2008: Hi - me again! You'll hear from me quite a bit at the moment as it is my only way of letting it all out!I have nobody to confide in which is making this very difficult. I am a mental wreck and it is actually harder than I thought to behave like a ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 11 October 2008: Hi to everyone going through the pain. My affair ended yesterday after a wonderful 8 months.I am happily married ( a lovely kind man) and we have been together since I was 18. Now we are 42 with 2 children. I suppose I wanted a thrill and a buzz in ... (read in full...)
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