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My girlfriend got naked at a pool party and I'm not okay with this. Don't you think she needs to respect my feelings?

Q.   Hey there. Here is my problem. My girlfriend of roughly three years went to a birthday pool party at one of her friend's houses. I heard from a friend who also went to the party that later in the evening my girlfriend got quite drunk and ended ...

A.   12 July 2009: to all the girls who said "its her body, stop controlling her, get over it," you need to shut up. No kidding its her body, but after a few months of dating, yeah, it is "our" body as well. You just don't do that. He's not controlling her at all. ... (read in full...)

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

Q.   Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...

A.   30 March 2009: just tell people she promoted you first then you had sex, they havenothing to do w/ each other. itsnone of their business anyways!... (read in full...)

Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?

Q.   I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone e...

A.   30 March 2009: HELL NO thas so stupid. its great that you dont want to be with anyone else and neither does he RIGHT NOW, but say in 2 years he goes out with his buds and gets drunk and cheats on you. its a high possibility. will you still want his name on you ... (read in full...)

Bothered that my girl has had a threesome before we dated..

Q.   I have a question involving threesomes. My girlfriend has told me that she has been in a threesome in which she was with two guys. One of the two guys was just who she was dating at the time and the other his friend. She told me it was great. I told ...

A.   30 March 2009: think of it this way: how great could it have been, seeing as how shes not even with him or them anymore? ;]... (read in full...)

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