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I am torn between two men...

Q.   I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

A.   2 March 2015: UPDATE! I completely forgot that I posted my dilemma here all those years ago. Recently, I cam across this page and felt compelled to update yet again. If anyone out there in a similar situation reads this, I would love for them to know that hap... (read in full...)

I am torn between two men...

Q.   I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

A.   22 December 2009: Wow, I can't believe how wrong I was. SOOO WRONG. After writing my last update, I decided to make a commitment to my decision and try to push forward. I also tried something new for me- I TALKED TO GUY #2 ABOUT MY DOUBTS, THE THINGS I WAS FEELING, ... (read in full...)

I am torn between two men...

Q.   I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

A.   23 July 2009: Hello, This is LittleEm the original poster of this story... So, here's how things went down. I broke up with guy #1 as you know, but couldn't cope with just up and leaving my life in one shot. Instead, I got a sublet for 5 months in Vermon... (read in full...)

I am torn between two men...

Q.   I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

A.   31 December 2008: I broke up with guy #1 last night. I really thought I was going to wait until February as we have a vacation planned with my family at the end of January, but I just couldn't keep looking him in the eye and being phony. What's more, guy #2 is out of ... (read in full...)

I am torn between two men...

Q.   I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

A.   28 December 2008: Thank you for these fast responses. In many ways, yes, I am looking for reassurance or for someone to tell me "it's ok." I've always been very concerned with doing "the right thing," which in this case feels like the right thing is to stay with guy ... (read in full...)

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