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How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   11 July 2007: Thanks for the recent comments. I would like to clarify a couple of points: 1. I am open to debate and discussion and even though I do not agree with some of eddie's views, I welcome them which is why I have used this media. This is MY view and ... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   10 July 2007: Hey Eddie Please dont take this the wrong way, how old are you? You say u are married, for how long? The reasons why I ask this is because you appear to take a very naive stance onthe fact that I choose to remain with my children's father for thei... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   10 July 2007: Dear eyeswideopen As I hve said, he knows we are not a couple as we have not slept together for a year. I could easily start proceedings as many a bitter woman has by getting him to leave our house and just visit the children, but I choose not to a... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   10 July 2007: Dear Eddie and Eyeswideopen If you read all of my answers u will see that I have told my loving partner that it is over and HE wont accept it - so I am just living with him and do so for my children. I have been honest but I dont have to hurt him... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   10 July 2007: Hi Eddie Thanks for your comments....I am not a cheater and I cannot believe that u keep saying this. What do u mean it gets muddier?? I have not hidden anything .. I have not been intimate with this guy.. I believe as a man u cannot understa... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   10 July 2007: Hi Thanks for your reply..What you have said gives me some comfort in a strange way because some of the things you have said is EXACTLY how we are....We have argued about coworkers..we work in a mostly female environment and I am very popular with... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   9 July 2007: thanks to the annoymous female. You say you are in the same position as me....do you work in the same office and see each other 5 days a week also? If you do, then how do you respond to each other at work and with colleagues around you? Do you f... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   8 July 2007: Thanks to Eddie and everyone who have responded. OK- I have thought about your comment Eddie and yes I can see the emotional adultury. By the way, when we went out once that was when we first met at work and he pretended others were coming and then ... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   7 July 2007: Thanks Eddie Again, I disagree - I have not committed adultury what is emotional adultury?.....Can one not have feelings for someone particularly as i am forced to sit with him in the same office where I work? its not as if we met in a bar and ... (read in full...)

How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?

Q.   For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...

A.   7 July 2007: Hi Eddie Why would u say I am committing adultury? I do not think I have totally. Thanks... (read in full...)

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