I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 27 November 2008: Initially, yes, he explained what was going on - i.e. that he had made the choice to stick with his family because he would miss his son too much and felt there was enough left to try and salvage before giving up on the marriage completely. He was ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 22 November 2008: What I don't understand, however much I think about it, is how some people manage to stay calm and rational about these things and get over them relatively quickly, and others (me included) struggle to get past them for goodness knows how long. Is ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 20 November 2008: Hey, very quick one as it's late. I've been really tussling with myself - keep tricking myself into thinking that, maybe if I send one more email and explain how I'm feeling, how much I miss him and care about him, he'll change his mind. But he ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 18 November 2008: This site is my therapy too! It's very difficult because for me it comes and goes in waves. I'll think I'm doing ok and then - sometimes for no apparent reason at all, sometimes because of something I see or do that reminds me of him - I'm a mess ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 17 November 2008: I've just managed a full week of no contact and, although I've done that before, I've always still had the hope of meeting up with him again or returning to some kind of contact. A week ago we had a horrible conversation which finally ended my hope, ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 11 November 2008: Thanks Mags. I actually cried all the way home last night, cried myself to sleep and was awake at 5 in the morning and struggled to get back to sleep, so my confident words of yesterday were obviously masking a lot of inner turmoil! Guess that's how ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 10 November 2008: Btw, I just registered - I'm the one who first wrote on 7 Nov - "anon lady"!
JVx... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 10 November 2008: It is strange, isn't it, the comfort to be found in knowing you are not alone. I think this is partly why I have for so long sought reassurance from him that he is also hurting - to know someone else understands. But it doesn't work sharing these ... (read in full...)
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