Am I lacking backbone?
Q. Hi there, I wonder if you can help me a little further. I am fundamentally unable to deal with mood swings from my wife. They are rare and for the majority of the time we’re absolutely fine. Then suddenly, out of the blue she will descend into wha...
A. 6 October 2017: Thanks everyone. As a point if fact she does suffer from Anxiety....sometimes she's really quick to tears. The fear I experience is as a result of a powerfully painful reaction I had some time ago to a break up with someone else. I am fearful of ... (read in full...)
Marriage in turmoil and I don't know what to do
Q. Something is not right with my marriage. I am scared and I have no idea what it is. We’re both fiercely loyal and I have no fears regarding infidelity. That’s a given. But something has and is changing. Its as if there has been some sort of dro...
A. 23 June 2016: Wow...such wisdom here! Thanks so much for your advice. I am erring on the side of stepping up. I never really considered that this might be what was needed - how stupid of me. I have taken the reins and she is starting to make some changes to ... (read in full...)
I now feel like a spare part in this marriage
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you will be able to offer me some advice to stop my marriage sliding towards problems. I am a 51 year old man. Re-married after a divorce and have been happily married for the last 4 years. We have a lovely son together (2...
A. 20 April 2016: We have talked before about the need for compromise. I still feel like I am being held to account all the time. Treading on Eggshells...... (read in full...)
I now feel like a spare part in this marriage
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you will be able to offer me some advice to stop my marriage sliding towards problems. I am a 51 year old man. Re-married after a divorce and have been happily married for the last 4 years. We have a lovely son together (2...
A. 19 April 2016: I guess I should also have added that the main thing that I am finding EXTREMELY difficult to manage is how she has completely refocused from the family (that she clearly now sees as a source of irritation) to her work. She even said to me recently ... (read in full...)
I now feel like a spare part in this marriage
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you will be able to offer me some advice to stop my marriage sliding towards problems. I am a 51 year old man. Re-married after a divorce and have been happily married for the last 4 years. We have a lovely son together (2...
A. 19 April 2016: Thanks both for your feedback. Its probably fair to point out that ALL of the disciplining is left to me. She would NEVER confront her son for any reason. It's bizarre in that respect. I have often stood aghast at how much she will do before i... (read in full...)
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