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How do I stop feeling so needy and dependant?

Q.   I rely too much on being in a relationship with my girlfriend for happiness, which means I'm always trying to make it more secure by being overly affectionate (which in turn means, I interpret a lack of return affection in a negative manner, and ...

A.   18 September 2007: Ok. I appreciate your candor, and your honesty, but maybe I should have explained, that I have always given her space, and respected her needs, I actually enjoy listening when she talks (because I get to feel like I'm helping even if all I do is ... (read in full...)

I think my partner is going off me - how can I regain lost confidence and realize I'm not at risk of losing my relationship?

Q.   I'm in a loving relationship with an older woman who has two children. I've never been happier, but I see her turning inwards, sometimes. She says she has issues, with her looks, getting older, etc,. I know she needs me to be strong, confident and ...

A.   18 September 2007: Thanks for your kind words. Its so easy to assume that I'm the root cause of her issues, when I know I'm most likely over-reacting. I'll always let her resolve her own issues and be ready to listen when she needs, and I love giving her attention and ... (read in full...)

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