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My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?

Q.   I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...

A.   5 August 2014: Men want to chase. They are like dogs, give a dog a stick and he drops it, throw it and he chases it. Simple really. ... (read in full...)

He tells me to stop all of this "drama," please help as it's been weeks since I've had proper meal or left my bedroom!

Q.   I met this guy a year back and we have been dating...he is very different from the entire world and i can vouch for it...maybe he loves me but i don't really matter to him...he seems like the kind of person who just can't love anyone but himself and ...

A.   5 August 2014: What about you? You are only responding to him, what do you want? What do you do for yourself. It sounds like you just respond to him without having any thing of your own. Your passivity and acceptance of the situation is the problem. He's never ... (read in full...)

He loves her but he doesn't like her?

Q.   Dear aunts, I am friends with a lot of guys. Anyways, I have this guy friend who talks about his gf a lot. Recently, we were on a topic about why men cheat and he was like "women are so hard to go with... Just last week I told my gf I love her bu...

A.   5 August 2014: Guys are turned on and "love" their gf so they both can feel ok about having sex. But once the urgency subsides they don't have much in common. They aren't really friends. It is a different quality of feeling.... (read in full...)

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