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Wife improves behavior but I cannot love her again

Q.   My wife was abusive to me and our kids for over 10 years. She did many horrendous things, including verbal abuse, lying, manipulation, and, in general, not expressing any love to me and our kids. We talked about these things over time, but she was ...

A.   26 September 2013: Thank you Fatherly Advice and Anonymous. I am listening to my body much more now and do recognize that I have to leave entirely. I felt bad not giving her a chance to show me that she has changed. But I guess, even if she has changed, it will ... (read in full...)

Wife improves behavior but I cannot love her again

Q.   My wife was abusive to me and our kids for over 10 years. She did many horrendous things, including verbal abuse, lying, manipulation, and, in general, not expressing any love to me and our kids. We talked about these things over time, but she was ...

A.   24 September 2013: Thank you Honeypie and the other anonymous responders from today. You have helped me to clarify what I have been feeling. A lot of my confusion has been cleared by your very kind advice and support. The fact of the matter is that I feel a lot ... (read in full...)

Wife improves behavior but I cannot love her again

Q.   My wife was abusive to me and our kids for over 10 years. She did many horrendous things, including verbal abuse, lying, manipulation, and, in general, not expressing any love to me and our kids. We talked about these things over time, but she was ...

A.   24 September 2013: These are terrific responses and I am honored to get the attention and wisdom of so many thoughtful and kind people. We both went into therapy a few years ago because I insisted. She cut it off when the therapist, in her individual sessions, ... (read in full...)

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