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... Send *urtButInLove a private message | | | *urtButInLove's profile:I’m 26 and my gf is 19. When we first met I really tried to not let my feelings get the best of me and I tried to basically not like her. That didn’t work. We ended up spending a lot of time together and started dating. Dating during Covid was definitely hard but we made it work and I truly love her.
At the beginning of July she found out she was pregnant. She was on the pill but forgot them when we went on a trip away. We didn’t think she would get pregnant but just a few missed pills, took the chance and had sex.
She told me she wasn’t ready to have a baby. I told her I would support her but I would definitely be there for her and the baby and that we would make it work. She decided to have an abortion. I didn’t want her to but I made sure she knew I supported her.
I love her , I love everything about her. When I see my future I see her but I know that stuff scares her and she’s not ready for any of that.
This past weekend we went to a family reunion, everyone there commented on how in loved we look and how they never seen people just look at each other and smile like we do. It was the first time since she had the abortion that I had fun and didn’t think about it.
Will it get easier? And how do I explain to her with out scaring her that she’s the one |
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My girlfriend had an abortion after an unwanted pregnancy. Will it get easier?
Q. I’m 26 and my gf is 19. When we first met I really tried to not let my feelings get the best of me and I tried to basically not like her. That didn’t work. We ended up spending a lot of time together and started dating. Dating during Covid was ...
A. 26 August 2021: I’ve mentioned counseling and she get upset and says she is fine. I’ve offered to talk if she needed to but again she refuses to talk about it.
I don’t want to come off as pushy, I’ve told her I’m here if she needs to talk but I’m not sure what... (read in full...)
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