I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event ...
A. 21 June 2012: Thank you for your help. I emailed him and said "I need to think about some things" and "I have been very busy" because if I bring up my concerns over the phone, he likley will just get defensive. It's better this way. He said I sounded distant and ... (read in full...)
I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event ...
A. 19 June 2012: We've been dating for 4 mos, but no one ever discussed if it was "exclusive" it just evoloved after a month to where we were seeing each other about every other day. I suppose "exclusive" for the past 2 1/2 mos. No one discussed whether it was ... (read in full...)
I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event ...
A. 19 June 2012: ... I forgot to mention, they were together 5 yrs, married 3, and both of them filed for divorce multiple times and the cases were "dismissed". Every 6 mos. one of them would file, then they would reconcile and the filing would be dismissed (this ... (read in full...)
I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event ...
A. 19 June 2012: No kids, this was his 2nd wife... yes, they are legally divorced. He showed me the papers, and I saw the status of divorced online on the public Court website. ... (read in full...)
I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event ...
A. 19 June 2012: Thank you to all who have answered, I appreciate it. I hinted at being invited... to no avail. Hmmm... (read in full...)
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