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I feel so insecure, jealous, like she saved nothing for our relationship, sexually... because of her past!

Q.   Is there a way to detach your feelings from sex because my woman's past makes me look at her in a bad, judgmental way I don't want to feel bad but I feel sick as I can't get thoughts of her with other guys out of my head, its making me desire sex ...

A.   25 April 2008: i think most everybody is kind of missing the point. it's an obsession, and an uncontrollable one, believe me i know. i've seen psychologists, family docs, shrinks....you name it about this same issue. nobody can truly understand unless they have to ... (read in full...)

I feel so insecure, jealous, like she saved nothing for our relationship, sexually... because of her past!

Q.   Is there a way to detach your feelings from sex because my woman's past makes me look at her in a bad, judgmental way I don't want to feel bad but I feel sick as I can't get thoughts of her with other guys out of my head, its making me desire sex ...

A.   25 April 2008: i think most everybody is kind of missing the point. it's an obsession, and an uncontrollable one, believe me i know. i've seen psychologists, family docs, shrinks....you name it about this same issue. nobody can truly understand unless they have to ... (read in full...)

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