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My boyfriend said he would stop the violence, but now he says I "make him" do it...

Q.   I have been in a five year relationship. I am 29, he's 34. Last night we were out. I left and came home without saying to him. He came home 30 min after, threw a bag at me which has bruised my face, then throwing me around the bedroom and banging ...

A.   25 August 2005: It is very difficult to make someone do anything against their will... But to physically abuse their partner? You are not making him do it. You do not lift his hands and force him to strike you. It is NOT your fault. For your own sake, and for your ... (read in full...)

Should I sacrifice the comfort of our longtime relationship?

Q.   I am a 21 year old female, and I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the past 5 years. We first dated when we were 16, broke up and got back together a couple of years later. In the time that we were not together neither one of us dated or...

A.   25 August 2005: I'm in a similar situation. It's always easier to say it someone else, but it sounds like you're wanting someone to say to you, "yes, you should finish with him." So, yeah, it sounds like you should finish it. It's one thing to stay with someone for ... (read in full...)

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