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She said she was ok with the fact I have a girlfriend and baby, but now has disappeared!

Q.   i have a problem and i don't know how to get out of this, i have a girlfriend who also a mother of my son, as we are not living together i happen to fall in love with another girl, i told her that i luv her but i have another one who have my child ...

A.   7 October 2008: She knows deep inside that you will never leave your girl and child, and will string her along. Please dont be selfish to want 2 people at the same time. I think she is a smart girl cause there is trouble down the line in this type of relation... (read in full...)

I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.

Q.   I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before ...

A.   7 October 2008: Don't tell him your worried about him. Such actions and words just re-inforce the negative in a man's mind. Find a constructive way of dealing with your worries, or even examine why they are there and if they are legitimate.... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to get her to clean up and seek marriage counseling? Is it even worth it?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for a little over three years now. We have 2 beautiful children whom we love dearly. She believes I had an affair or multiple affairs and cannot stop dragging this through the mud. She went so far as to have me ...

A.   7 October 2008: Clean or stop your bank account now. Transfer funds elsewhere, but don't leave that money in for any longer!... (read in full...)

Can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl?

Q.   Ladies, (or gents) can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl? I have been spending some time lately with a girl I like a lot. We have a lot in common and want a lot of the same things in life (home in ...

A.   7 October 2008: how long to wait for what? Sex? Marriage... what? If you want her around for good, you don't wanna be having sex with her before you marry her.... (read in full...)

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