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... Send *arebear_23k a private message | | *arebear_23k's profile:I am a happily married wife and mother of one, and two step sons. I have recently gone through a very rough time in my life. I need a lot of advice. If any one can help it would be great!
I have had the most wonderful relationship with my husband. We have had our ups and downs obviously. We split up for about 1 month, and I had a rebound about a year ago, when we weren't yet married. I was extremely scared of losing him. I have absolutely no excuse for doing it at all, it meant nothing, but I had cheated on him once with the guy I had the rebound with. I didn't know whether or not things would work out, and I made the biggest mistake of my life. It ate me up inside for so long.
I thought for such a long time that it would be best to tell him. Unfortunately, I feel like telling him was the wrong thing to do.
He says that he still wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but that he thought I was better than that! I absolutely agree with him there! He deserves better than that.
What do I do to make my relationship better? I do I cope with how I feel? And How do I make him feel any better about the situation without beating a dead horse, or smothering him about it?
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A. 3 October 2008: Thank You for your advice....I really appreciate it. I hope and pray that he WILL forgive me. I really hope to spend the rest of my life with him. I know that he is hurt. There is absolutely no excuse for it AT ALL. I am just happy that he is ... (read in full...)
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