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I am a happily married wife and mother of one, and two step sons. I have recently gone through a very rough time in my life. I need a lot of advice. If any one can help it would be great!

I have had the most wonderful relationship with my husband. We have had our ups and downs obviously. We split up for about 1 month, and I had a rebound about a year ago, when we weren't yet married. I was extremely scared of losing him. I have absolutely no excuse for doing it at all, it meant nothing, but I had cheated on him once with the guy I had the rebound with. I didn't know whether or not things would work out, and I made the biggest mistake of my life. It ate me up inside for so long.

I thought for such a long time that it would be best to tell him. Unfortunately, I feel like telling him was the wrong thing to do.

He says that he still wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but that he thought I was better than that! I absolutely agree with him there! He deserves better than that.

What do I do to make my relationship better? I do I cope with how I feel? And How do I make him feel any better about the situation without beating a dead horse, or smothering him about it?

Please help me...I am more than sorry for what I did.

Will it work out if I cheated on my husband? I told him...

Q.   Almost a year ago, I had a break up with my now husband. I had a rebound after him for about a month. After deciding to be together again, I break it off with the other guy. I was scared that it wouldn't work out between us, and made a bad mistake ...

A.   3 October 2008: Thank You for your advice....I really appreciate it. I hope and pray that he WILL forgive me. I really hope to spend the rest of my life with him. I know that he is hurt. There is absolutely no excuse for it AT ALL. I am just happy that he is ... (read in full...)

Will it work out if I cheated on my husband? I told him...

Q.   Almost a year ago, I had a break up with my now husband. I had a rebound after him for about a month. After deciding to be together again, I break it off with the other guy. I was scared that it wouldn't work out between us, and made a bad mistake ...

A.   3 October 2008: I really just want hope that it will work out. I am tired of feeling this way. No matter what I do, almost a year of suffering will never be good enough. I wish I never would have told him...but at the same time, I know I did the right thing. I just ... (read in full...)

I need some neutral insight

Q.   I was reluctantly planning on moving to florida to go to school at a community college full time august 1st. july 26th i invited my friend jamie to my friend davids birthday party, because she was nice and i thought she was cute. she brought along ...

A.   3 October 2008: I feel as if no matter what I do though, I am this big blog of garbage! I hate feeling this way. Maybe someday we will both feel better. I just want to feel like a person again! When will they day come already? Thanks for the advice!... (read in full...)

Intimacy with my first cousin..was it wrong?

Q.   hi i had a intimate relationship with my first cousin, we were together for four months and then decided to have sex, but i became pregnant and was made to have an abortion because i was only 17 and my family didn't approve, now me and my cousin d...

A.   3 October 2008: I know where your coming from with the cousin situation. My cousin and I met for maybe the first time since we were babies. He had a fatal attraction for me. Only, he knew I was in a very depressed, unstable, and very emotionally sensitive time in ... (read in full...)

I need some neutral insight

Q.   I was reluctantly planning on moving to florida to go to school at a community college full time august 1st. july 26th i invited my friend jamie to my friend davids birthday party, because she was nice and i thought she was cute. she brought along ...

A.   3 October 2008: It sounds as if there may be some concern there. I would definitely do what you suggested. Everyone deserves at least a chance to prove themselves...I have a question for you though. Almost a year ago, I had a break up with my now husband.... (read in full...)

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