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Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   16 January 2007: Just an update to those who are curious. Things are going well right now. We are getting along, and as far as I can tell, she has not had any contact with her ex-boyfriend. The trust bridge is being built back up, but it obviously will take tim... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   5 January 2007: Pete, what you just said couldn't be truer. My friends at work have told me they hate her for doing this, and I can see that, because part of me hates her for it too. However, my closest friend told me the only advice he could give me was to follow ... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   5 January 2007: Thank you everyone. You don't know how much your advice means to me. I am taking it all to heart, along with my friends who are aware of the situation. I am not going to do anything rash, I'm going to see how it goes. How it feels. So far, whe... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   3 January 2007: Thank you for all the responses, they are enlightening. I guess my problem is, I keep thinking that she very well may be telling the truth. And if thats the case, we could stay togther and mend the trust bridge. I asked her how she would feel if the ... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   3 January 2007: Update, we talked about it again, and she still maintains that she did nothing with him. She doesn't know why she said she wanted him. She wants to work things out. She sent me 2 messages after I saw her at work. 1: "Do you really want to walk away? ... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   3 January 2007: Thanks to those who have helped. Dosent' everyone deseve a second chance? I want to , but the pain in side me is sickning. I don't want to end it, but I am feeling more and more like there is no other alternative.... (read in full...)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

Q.   I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

A.   3 January 2007: She did go out with her girlfriend that night. I had talked with her, and heard her friend in the background at the bar. She did however leave the bar later that night to go see him. See brought up that they had never had sex in the 2 years they ... (read in full...)

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