Should I call and say hello or just leave him alone?
Q. Recently I have been getting this strong urge to call the guy that I can't seem to get over. He was my first and unfortunately he did me wrong even though we weren't in a relationship. He knew I wanted to be with him but once we had sex it all ...
A. 23 November 2009: 'He was my first ... though we weren't in a relationship.'
Of course, you wanted your first to be special. But, you weren't in a relationship then, and still aren't now. So he isn't worth pursuing.
If you can build a solid relationship wit... (read in full...)
Did she really intend to hurt me?
Q. For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. ...
A. 22 November 2009: It turns out I was way off base ... and this chapter of the story has a happy ending. Jane explained that she was staying overnight with Don AND his girlfriend Paula. This put a completely different spin on her earlier message that 'I'm staying ... (read in full...)
Did she really intend to hurt me?
Q. For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. ...
A. 22 November 2009: Thanks for your insights, quiet-echo. I'm going to talk to Jane in ten minutes. We'll see how it goes. I think she's from the same country as you. Oh jeez, I hope you aren't her!... (read in full...)
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