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Too many red flags here? Or should I have more patience?

Q.   Ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. It's still early days I know, but it's also a long enough period to see how the persons personality is etc. My boyfriend had a troubled childhood, his mum ran away aged 5 and his dad beat ...

A.   17 January 2012: I was in your EXACT same shoes about 4 years ago (click on my profile name and read a post I made back in 2008 and read my update from last week). My wife, then girlfriend, had "childhood issues" that negatively affected us (she had a bad temper... (read in full...)

Too many red flags here? Or should I have more patience?

Q.   Ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. It's still early days I know, but it's also a long enough period to see how the persons personality is etc. My boyfriend had a troubled childhood, his mum ran away aged 5 and his dad beat ...

A.   13 January 2012: You made the right decision to leave! I was in a very similar situation with a girl who had "childhood issues". I wanted to help her through them even though they were negatively affecting our relationship. I ignored/downplayed the red flags and ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!

Q.   I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me ...

A.   13 January 2012: ORIGINAL POSTER HERE: Well it has been 4 long years since I posted this question. Long story short, I ended up getting married to her and now we are separated and getting divorced. So why did I ignore 99% of the advice of commenters here telling... (read in full...)

My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!

Q.   I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me ...

A.   13 January 2012: ORIGINAL POSTER HERE: Well it has been 4 long years since I posted this question. Long story short, I ended up getting married to her and now we are separated and getting divorced. So why did I ignore 99% of the advice of commenters here telling ... (read in full...)

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