Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???
Q. Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...
A. 6 October 2007: Yeah figured as much- the easy cure- feel blue? can't get your d**k hard? hate your mom? pop a bill, see a shrink, numb out. whatever happened to standing on your own two feet and dealing with life as it comes? I have- i am not wounded. Just ... (read in full...)
Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???
Q. Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...
A. 6 October 2007: But, seems counselling can only work if you believe in it and are open to it and I just am not. Not a believer. Won't work for me. Guess I'm doomed. Thanks... (read in full...)
Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???
Q. Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...
A. 6 October 2007: Any other opinions besides my need for psycho therapy and that I am a wounded child? (I had some trauma, but I do not let it hold me back- that's not it- I dont know what it is,tho)
I am taking time now and thinking about things and what I want. ... (read in full...)
Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???
Q. Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...
A. 4 October 2007: defining:
what she wants (eventually) is marriage. for now it seems to be reassurance, stroking, attention, and for me to say she's important and that I love her.
I will be married again someday,and have thought about that with her, but don't fe... (read in full...)
Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???
Q. Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...
A. 3 October 2007: Thanks for the answers so far.
She knows she is needy and then hates self for it, but it's in reaction to my pulling away.
We are taking space right now so I can think.
She wants everything, and isn't pushing for it all now, but to know there's... (read in full...)
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