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*abye2007

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Life is miserable for everyone involved. How do I proceed?

Q.   After more than 20 years of a bad marriage, I had an affair with a colleague at a conference. We had known each other for about 15 years, but both of us were in unhappy relationships. My husband Bill had traveled for his job and had numerous ...

A.   11 March 2007: Sounds to me like everybody wants to have their cake and eat it too. You want John, John wants you, Bill wanted John's wife, now he doesn't anymore and now Bill wants you too. Yet in all this mess, nobody wants a divorce. None of you can have it ... (read in full...)

Whenever my boyfriend gets drunk or high he holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. Last night he choked me until I was unconscious... but I love him, it's not his fault.

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first 2 years things were going great but now he hits me whenever he gets drunk or high. Sometimes he even holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. I don't want to leave him ...

A.   10 March 2007: Girlfriend, if a man puts his hands on you in an abusive way one time, just one time, LEAVE HIM!!!!!. An abusive man won't change because it's all about control and obviously he's controlling you big time. If you love yourself, then you'll get ... (read in full...)

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