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I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

Q.   So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

A.   10 April 2009: As for the comments below: Im not very sure about giving him ultimatums. Those usually backfire on you. Instead, you can ask him why he wants to stay single and what he means by it, then make your decision if you want to deal with it or not and ... (read in full...)

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

Q.   So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

A.   10 April 2009: Spend time with him but dont sleep with him and you'll know if he likes you for you or for convenience. Do you only see him in the bedroom or do you go out with him and his friends? If he is not including you in his activities and hiding you from ... (read in full...)

Relationship status: COMPLICATED

Q.   So Ive been with this guy on and off for more than a year now (Dec 07). We get along well, have good sex and get along with our friends. We dated officially for a good half of the time we were together but since June of last year we have gone back ...

A.   10 April 2009: Thanks again for all your help and advice. I wanted to wait to respond because I wanted to see where this new re-encounter was heading. I agree with you that he does not consider me much of anything if he doesnt want to claim me as his girlfrie... (read in full...)

Relationship status: COMPLICATED

Q.   So Ive been with this guy on and off for more than a year now (Dec 07). We get along well, have good sex and get along with our friends. We dated officially for a good half of the time we were together but since June of last year we have gone back ...

A.   26 March 2009: Thanks for your comment rhythmandblues2. I gotta admit I agree with you that each time I take him back it gives him the idea that Im easy and will always take him back. I never really realized though, that each time I break up can also make hi... (read in full...)

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