She's amassed $70,000 in debt!!!!!
Q. Hello; I've asked a few other questions, so I don't want to overload the board, but I figured I'd try one more. I have been with my girlfriend for 6+ years, engaged for 2+ of those years. I don't believe we will ever have a wedding -- after I p...
A. 1 December 2008: Thanks for these responses! They were very helpful. I guess I get hung up/guilty because it feels like I'm trying to run off and find a new girl with less debt/baggage because that's "easier," rather than trying to stay and fix this problem. I just ... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...
A. 30 November 2008: THANK YOU, Shandy! That was a very helpful answer, and I appreciate your willingness to understand all sides of it. Believe me, I don't *WANT* to have to tell someone I love to lose weight! I am taking your advice to heart, and thank you for your ... (read in full...)
Miscarriage???
Q. I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry...
A. 29 November 2008: I'm not an expert, but this seems astonishingly unsafe. I would highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend you talk to a trusted counselor before attempting something that, in all likelihood, could cause you serious bodily harm.... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...
A. 28 November 2008: "Maybe you are the one with the problem not her. Why dont you just leave her if your not attracted to her instead of making her life a misery and then sit back and watch her find someone much better."
Sigh. This comment is ridiculous, for a number... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...
A. 28 November 2008: See, here's what troubles me about the few people who have said "She'll lose weight and leave you." Following that to it's logical conclusion, what you're essentially saying is: Once two people get together, either party has the right to totally... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...
A. 28 November 2008: "Trust me no girl would chose being fat over thin if given a choice." I guess that's what bothers me - she *does* have a choice. Some background: I was *massively* overweight when I was in my 20s -- like, 250+ pounds -- but I put in the work and ... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...
A. 28 November 2008: Actually, I already did try that -- I encouraged her quite a few times to join me at the gym to no avail. ... (read in full...)
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