I like my best friend but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. So I like my best friend, more than a friend should. But she currently has a boyfriend (over a year now). She knows I like her because I asked her to come with me to an event, then she wanted him to come cause she wanted us to make friends. I ...
A. 4 September 2013: I can empathise with how you're feeling; it's quite a predicament.
Firstly, is it worth dating your best friend and thus risk spoiling that friendship should things not turn out rosy?
Secondly, she is with someone else...not the honourable t... (read in full...)
Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!
Q. I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this ...
A. 4 September 2013: Thanks, k_c100...I didn't think about it that way. It is an Asian culture and even though I hail from a similar background, hers is still fairly different (too much diversity in that part of the world). I can't believe the whole arranged thing d... (read in full...)
Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!
Q. I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this ...
A. 4 September 2013: eyeswideopen: alas, I'm being too British and reserved about this. You're right...need to be more gutsy.... (read in full...)
Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!
Q. I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this ...
A. 3 September 2013: Well, I did say 'if not sooner'...I'd rather ask face to face and that depends on the next time I see her.
What's stopped me doing what you said so far is not wanting to make things uncomfortable at work. Even if she's not always there, gossip s... (read in full...)
Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!
Q. I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this ...
A. 3 September 2013: Thanks, k_c100 for your advice. Really appreciate you taking the time out to read my drivel! I did try asking indirectly and established she lives with her family (a bit strange for a 25 yr old, perhaps...but not given the cultural backgro... (read in full...)
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